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Man Oh Man !!! why does fear always come to rip ur heart , ur balls apart , when it comes to appraoaching girls that u fancy ?
There she was sitting , alone in a corner at the Macdonalds At Funan IT Mall . As soon as i stepped into Mac , i tried to get some eye contact. Our eyes met , and the next thing i know that i wanted to get to know her . Recently i read a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss. But i couldn't seem to apply what the book taught . I tried to pluck my courage , my fuking balls up , just to walk up to her saying ; "Hi" . But i did not do so. Fear suddenly caught up with my heart , doubling the speed that my heart could normally beat . I had to get out of my comfort zone , but i retreated like a tortoise into its shell . Soon after , she left . I felt kinda relieved and at the same time lousy bout' myself . I needed some counselling and the guts to bring my fuking balls uP to approach girls .
This kind of feeling ; it feels good for me as i know that i have really gotten over my past . i just need to get out of my comfort zone .
- Jeco jeco aka Cabb
Ps : some pple told me that : just go for it , u will never know when is it ur gonna see her again or vice versa .
I mean this world is cruel . It makes us fight for the things we want in life . It doesn't always appear infront of you .
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3 comments:
Chill bro, everyone has got their own fear. It's not why u had it but rather, its more on how you overcome it. Someone famous once said this:
"I have got no fear going to the prison because i know the real prison is, having fear."
well, think about it...
and i very much agree on "you got to fight for what you want". At the same time, i too believe that what meant to be yours will be yours.. you will find yours one day. So, smile =) becoz tml will be a better day~ WOOoohooOO~
wise words from kok..
cabb, if its any consolation, i jus went to a house party ytd.. and bloody hell there were alot of girls.. BUT!! same situation.. i was sitting or standing wif my fren at 1 corner as we dun really know every single 1 of them.. and i really wan to socialize but balls shrink.. however, something surprises me.. instead of us approachin girls, the girls approach us (abt 2 - 4 of them to b exact).. all they did was smile and den wave.. den automatically i jus waved bak and den DAMN! we started toking.. den it jus impacted on me lik "wa fuk. i am a man with balls and yet so humji." den it hit me.. so i started sayin hello once i had eye contact.. soon i made frens wif quite a few pple.. Maybe i m using tis pt at the wrong concept as i m in a party.. but den agn it can b applied to the eye contact concept.. hold on to tt opportunity and hold it tight.. smile and approach the girl.. dun fear failure, cuz u nv know u will fail until u try.. so cabb.. bring those balls up lik a man, tak a deep breathe and go for it...
its not easy , aint it ! woW ! girls opened you guys up! keep up the good job ! but i dun knw whether does it apply it in Singapore ! fuck fuck fuck !!!
-cabb
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