MEN WEREN'T REALLY THE ENEMY

Quote of the day : " They were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill " .
- Betty Friedan
The Feminine Mystique

Jeco aka cabb here . Just to share , I 've been reading this book " The Game" . I'm not gonna say much but as i begin to share my experience in talking to strangers , i found myself looking at the opposite sex with a different perspective . It's kinda funny and weird thing for me and im not sure whether am i feeling wrong or wat .

This book has definitely taught alot on sarging in nightclubs , pick-up lines , opener , how to attract , find and meet , and etc . . . if u want to know ask me . But i can't seem to apply it in Singapore ; FUCK !!!

I'm close to completing the book and i'm starting on a new book called " The Definitive Book of Body Language ."

okok . . . enuff said . . .

I shall share 1 of my experience at St. James PowerHouse .

I'm not sure about the date , so don't fucking ask .

That night , I met up with Leslie's friends and we head down to St.James PowerHouse . Before leaving the house , i make sure i've already prepared myself for the "Game" . I prepared openers , pick-up lines and some jokes ( if the conversation between me n her gets too boring , i might crack 1 or 2 ) and i'm done .

Few moments later , i was at the club . I was constantly looking for a target and probably sarge her . Then there was this girl , probably at about 175cm wearing heels , silky long hair which smells nice i suppose with some light make-up came up to me and ask me whether could she sat down here .

I answered : " ya , sure ."

Soon after sitting down , i couldn't stop myself from looking at her though she wasn't 8/10.
I would rate her 6.5/10 .
(there wasn't any good-looking girls around.!!!)

Then i asked her , what's her name . FUCK!

i fucking spoil my plan by asking her what's her name because what if she doesn't wants to reply me at all .
Then i reach out my hand and try to give a handshake , i insisted on that and i was so so so wrong .
All the openers , pick-up lines and stuff i had prepared had gone down the drain . =(
After a few minutes , i started to chat with her and asked her those standard questions that normally people would ask , such as , which school are you studying at , what course are you taking . It's like a routine , GOD DAMMIT! FUCK !

Her reply was simple and one-word answer , i was getting bored but i couldn't even say out my lines that i've prepared . I was dumbstruck ! FUCK !

After that , i was being pulled down to the dance floor without even saying goodbye or see you at the dancefloor. That was it .

When i reached down , i sat down and i drew up an analysis of how and in what way could i approach the girl. In the first place , the positioning was wrong and i did not do anything about it.

When the analysis was up , i realise that i was in the wrong position like i've just said , and i should shift myself to face her. Btw, she was sitting at my right hand side .

okok . . . this is so much that i've shared after reading the book for like 2-3 chapters.

-Jeco .