MEN WEREN'T REALLY THE ENEMY

Quote of the day : " They were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill " .
- Betty Friedan
The Feminine Mystique

Jeco aka cabb here . Just to share , I 've been reading this book " The Game" . I'm not gonna say much but as i begin to share my experience in talking to strangers , i found myself looking at the opposite sex with a different perspective . It's kinda funny and weird thing for me and im not sure whether am i feeling wrong or wat .

This book has definitely taught alot on sarging in nightclubs , pick-up lines , opener , how to attract , find and meet , and etc . . . if u want to know ask me . But i can't seem to apply it in Singapore ; FUCK !!!

I'm close to completing the book and i'm starting on a new book called " The Definitive Book of Body Language ."

okok . . . enuff said . . .

I shall share 1 of my experience at St. James PowerHouse .

I'm not sure about the date , so don't fucking ask .

That night , I met up with Leslie's friends and we head down to St.James PowerHouse . Before leaving the house , i make sure i've already prepared myself for the "Game" . I prepared openers , pick-up lines and some jokes ( if the conversation between me n her gets too boring , i might crack 1 or 2 ) and i'm done .

Few moments later , i was at the club . I was constantly looking for a target and probably sarge her . Then there was this girl , probably at about 175cm wearing heels , silky long hair which smells nice i suppose with some light make-up came up to me and ask me whether could she sat down here .

I answered : " ya , sure ."

Soon after sitting down , i couldn't stop myself from looking at her though she wasn't 8/10.
I would rate her 6.5/10 .
(there wasn't any good-looking girls around.!!!)

Then i asked her , what's her name . FUCK!

i fucking spoil my plan by asking her what's her name because what if she doesn't wants to reply me at all .
Then i reach out my hand and try to give a handshake , i insisted on that and i was so so so wrong .
All the openers , pick-up lines and stuff i had prepared had gone down the drain . =(
After a few minutes , i started to chat with her and asked her those standard questions that normally people would ask , such as , which school are you studying at , what course are you taking . It's like a routine , GOD DAMMIT! FUCK !

Her reply was simple and one-word answer , i was getting bored but i couldn't even say out my lines that i've prepared . I was dumbstruck ! FUCK !

After that , i was being pulled down to the dance floor without even saying goodbye or see you at the dancefloor. That was it .

When i reached down , i sat down and i drew up an analysis of how and in what way could i approach the girl. In the first place , the positioning was wrong and i did not do anything about it.

When the analysis was up , i realise that i was in the wrong position like i've just said , and i should shift myself to face her. Btw, she was sitting at my right hand side .

okok . . . this is so much that i've shared after reading the book for like 2-3 chapters.

-Jeco .

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IN ALL YOUR FACES ! ! ! MAN UTD WON 2-1 ! ! ! WOOOOHOOOO~~~ =D

Words and Memories

Its 2.19 in the morning , and you guys must be wondering why is this person wrote an entry .

At around 11.10pm , Ahji and Peiru suggested that its wednesday nite , and it means that its chill out nite or ladies nite at butter factory . Ahji suggested we chiong cab down to butter factory , but he was just spamming words .

So we decided to call upon Kok , Wesley and Cheng to join us at skatepark area to chill out . We bought 2 Vodkas and some mixers attached with some "cigs" and chips.

We chatted till 2am . haha.

Topics chatted ; "sex as always" , po_ _ _ _ _ _ _ !!! girls , chalet, different kinds of experience, Poly life friends of how they did crazy stuffs and such . It was very random topics , but we managed to pass thru' the night just like that .

I mean its kinda cool , seeing people like K_ _ and W_ _ _ _ _ coming down to chill out , talking cock with us (including Peiru too) .

haha. Btw, the police came and screen us for our "ID's" before Kok soon arrived at the "Lepak" area.

Nice chill out , we should do this more often . Talk alot though i was just sitting down and listening to each and every stories , the fun things , going to bbk al_ _ _ , watching girls go "_ _ _ _ _ _". haha .

Its like , we are 23 years old and some of us never get laid before . Experience and experience . But never take things for granted !



I really enjoyed the company that I've right now . rU !

How long can we last as one depends on how we cherish each and every moment together as one.

Who gives a fuck to those fucking people out there !



PS : sorry for the vuglar.



-Cabb



When you have the power to get any girls out there , just be cool and dont be proud of it cuz one day you will get sick and tired of it .

thoughts

Woots . . . Back to blogging stuffs again . . .
Man Oh Man !!! why does fear always come to rip ur heart , ur balls apart , when it comes to appraoaching girls that u fancy ?

There she was sitting , alone in a corner at the Macdonalds At Funan IT Mall . As soon as i stepped into Mac , i tried to get some eye contact. Our eyes met , and the next thing i know that i wanted to get to know her . Recently i read a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss. But i couldn't seem to apply what the book taught . I tried to pluck my courage , my fuking balls up , just to walk up to her saying ; "Hi" . But i did not do so. Fear suddenly caught up with my heart , doubling the speed that my heart could normally beat . I had to get out of my comfort zone , but i retreated like a tortoise into its shell . Soon after , she left . I felt kinda relieved and at the same time lousy bout' myself . I needed some counselling and the guts to bring my fuking balls uP to approach girls .

This kind of feeling ; it feels good for me as i know that i have really gotten over my past . i just need to get out of my comfort zone .

- Jeco jeco aka Cabb

Ps : some pple told me that : just go for it , u will never know when is it ur gonna see her again or vice versa .
I mean this world is cruel . It makes us fight for the things we want in life . It doesn't always appear infront of you .

!!!!

Do u all ever think what u really want in life??? Get a stable job and financially doing well with out woes, work at something u really interested in or look for an ideal partner?

Now ia 3.04am and i just came back from my friend house feeling abit high under the influence of 4 bottles of tiger beers!!! Majority of the things he had told me really knock me to sense, i know some of points ppl may had ever mention to me before.. but todaY, i just really take into consideration like what master khor sAID, " boy! you are still young and now u just have to concentrate in ur studies to assure a stable job. At the end of the day girls will start going after you." This is quite true in logically thinking, everyone knows about it but Master Khor just wanted to highlighted it to me.

BUT! before those girls that are going to go after you, must be already a friend of urs and know u inside out. What im trying to say is to start open up ur heart and be more socialise, time to learn to get more friends(ABAZ)... You wont lose anything, in faCT U are upgrading ur social skill without knowing .. always look at the positive and stop imagine the worst case scenario, if they really rejected you as a "FRIEND", this prove that this person got no sense of social skill.. you got nothing wrong at it. The person is not gonna affect ur life or even attend ur funeral (touch wood) if you made a mistake, they are just another human being on this planet and eventually they will forget who you are after some times.

Utimately, what you reAlly WANT in life? is all depend on YOU!! so is time to do some reflection and undersTand yourself before u are ready to noe others...

NOTE~ please dun question me on this topic... if you guys dun really understand what M I trying to say, just be it, read and forget....

AHJI

HELP ! ! ! All right, chill everyone.. Nothing concerning lifes and deaths here though. LOLs. I just feel our blog is seriously in need of help. It wasnt as active as it shld have been. It's always the same few people who are blogging(cheers to them=)) and sharing their happenings to the rest of the bro here. well, hope you guys out there can do more updates okie? anything under the sun. Eg. Lifes in camp, someone u really dislike in ur workplace, lifes in overseas, ur injuries, how u and her etc.... nonsense post are welcome too~

If you guys ain't sure of the username or password, feel free to ask either ah ji, lester or me in msn ya..?!?

hope to see more of those siew mai in da mouth kind of creative posts. LOLs~

till then....

take care everyone~~~

=D

kok