Bored

Ever wondered when will be the time to get a girlfriend ?
Marriage ?
Kids ? haha...

I'm just bored.

Anyways , friday will be my birthday.

I would like to take the chance to wish every rU members a good day. Live life to the fullest. !!!

When we got to go our seperate ways , i wish you all the best out there.

Its kinda hard to find a companion. These days totally can't fathom a singaporean girl's mindset. Just what the heck are they thinking.

Peace my brothers ,
Cabb. . .

Friends or ?

i wonder if ever couples do breakup?

Do they remain as friends or whateva?
I was just wondering . . .

hhmmm...

Probably not even a chat in msn . . .

Haix . . . I would be glad if time could turn back , then i would make the decision wisely . . .

Now , a friend is lost . . .

hmmm... Guess I've learnt something the hard way . . .

It's hard to find someone whom you really click with . . .

In status as well . . .

Wellll . . . I'm emo ing on a Wednesday night . . . Ladies night huh . . .

Kinda getting tired of the clubs in SG . . .

Girls , Booze , Liquor , Music , Cigs . . .

I wonder who's gonna get attached . . .


JANET JACKSON
-
that's the way love goes [ Nice Song ]

Signing off : Jeconiah aka . Cabb

"Flashback"/s

Looks like I'm the only one who is always blogging.

Flashbacks started when she wrote something about ;

When she saw pictures and stuffs about us , she would think back about the times she had .

And her friends in Facebook would comment : "are you ok ?" , or " You ok ?"

Fuk.
I wonder what's going on in her mind.
It makes me feel guilty that i've made you suffered so much . I know it's my fault , but you don't have to say it in Facebook right.
And so ;
Since you got a boyfriend , just focus on him and don't think so much. You told me not to think so much , and yet you're thinking as much.

I don't know whether you mean it that way , or I may misinterpret it.

I hope the best for you ; be it in your career and your life partner.

I wish you all the best though I've never said it to you in reality.
ps: ( you will never see this blog or this post .)

sorry to rU bros, i just wanna spit it out of my heart.
It's been there since last week.
I hope whatever i wrote here shall remain as is it.
Thanks. ~!

Jeco jeco aka Cabb.

A boy trying to improve on every aspect of his career , social skills and breakin.

One to Remember

As you can see , Terence Tan was absolutely drunk.

Events , Events n more

Events always comes with photos and videos . Too bad i don't have a video cam with me . I'm a photographer.
Just a photographer that you would normal see on the streets of Orchard road. I think so.

First Up , Chalet for Mr and Mrs Ong . It was a farewell for them as they will be leaving for Texas . Let's talk about food being bought for the Chalet BBQ. The price was around $300. ( Rounded value )

Pok suggested the Shabu-Shabu and the Lamb Chop. It was the most 'WTF' ever saltiest thing i have ever eaten.

Pictures are in FACEBOOK !!!

2nd 'ly'

We had another BBQ over at ahji's house the next day . Finally we finished up all the remaining food. Pok n ahji was fighting over the Shabu-Shabu.
wtf.
haha.
In addition , Celebrating Lee Peiru 's "DICK" for 22 years old !!! well done dude. Keep it up. !!!

3rd 'ly'

Well , i got myself hurt and went into the ambulance .
Ahji was driving the ambulance.
After tt , it was gym. took photos!!!

Events after events ; Finally , Mr n Mrs Ong departed from Singapore and they are going to miss out on the fun are we going to have.

Safe Journey and we will see you again soon .

Come back with your Children. Opps~!

-Jeco jeco aka. Cabb

3 little chun cheng sitting on the wall..

CHUN CHENG CHUN CHENG SAT ON THE WALL!

The Game

Finally , "The Game" is completed . I've realised that i learnt so much things about going out

there , the streets , clubs and etc , just to pick up women and learning about their lives and stuff.

Striking a conversation with a women could be as easy as it would in the book .

But it ain't. It takes courage , confidence and self esteem to do that , i suppose so. haha.

I've also learnt that maintaining a relationship is NOT that easy . It takes time n effort to

nurture and last a relationship forever .

So ladies and gentlemen out there , Maintaining a relationship is NOT easy .

Surely quarrels and small tiffs will come by , but settle it before the sun SETS.

It's important to NOT to bring the anger or whatever that's unhappy to the next morning.

ps : It's just my opinion ; point of view .

- Jeco Jeco aka. Cabb
Thanks . =O

Fortune Telling

Recently i read this book about body language and came upon a short paragraph about fortune telling .
Probably u guys can try it out .

I'm glad that you 've come and read this post and I can see you have things that are troubling you because I am receiving strong signals from you.
I sense that the things you really want out of life sometimes seem unrealistic and you often wonder whether you can achieve them .
I also sense that at times you are friendly , social and outgoing to others , but that at other times you are withdrawn , reserved and cautious .
You take pride in being an independent thinker but also know not to accept what you see and hear from others , without proof.
You like change and variety but become restless if controlled by restrictions and routine.
You want to share your innermost feelings with those closest to you but have found it unwise to be too open and revealing.
A man in your life with the initial "S" is exerting a strong influence over you right now and a woman who is born in November will contact you in the next month with an exciting offer.
While you appear disciplined and controlled on the outside , you tend to be concerned and worried on the inside and at times you wonder whether or not you have made the right choice or decision.

Hope you guys enjoy it . ~

Writing on and on . . .

- Jeco Jeco aka. Cabb

Death has always been with us since the beginning of time

Thank God! I'm able to do my next post for this blog.

Sunday, 4 of april around 10.30pm. Lee Peiru asked me out for a run, a freaking long run actually, as usual our mouths are doing the running for the first km and then we started running from our house to jurong point, along the mrt track to jurong east station, tan's house then back home. I wonder how long is the distance but we took close to 2hrs to complete it. It was a close shave with death on a traffic light right after lakeside mrt station, as the green light started blinking and we were quite a distance away but we gave it a chase. I sprinted through the traffic when was about to reach the pavement, the next moment motorists shouted follow by a taxi turned in towards my direction and jammed brake just on time. It was so close that my left leg can feel the impact of the air (SIBEI HENG SIA) , luckily im able to dodge it in time and Lee Peiru gave a kick at the back of the car. haha.. I was still quite shock when we resume our running, was thinking what if i got hit, paralyse or die.. (cfm sibei buay kam wan) Then i started to recall all the books i had read regarding on death.. "Death has always been with us since the beginning of time" quoted by confucius, then followed by

"Learn How to Die; Learn How to Live"

from this book "Tuesday with morrie"

“‘Everybody knows they’re going to die, but nobody believes it. If we did, we would do things differently,’ Morrie said. ‘So we kid ourselves about death,’ I (Mitch) said. ‘Yes, but there’s a better approach. To know you’re going to die and be prepared for it at any time. That’s better. That way you can be actually be more involved in your I ready? Am life while you’re living. . . Every day, have a little bird on your shoulder that asks, ‘Is today the day? AmI doing all I need to do? Am I being the person I want to be?... The truth is, Mitch, once you learn how to die, you learn how to live… Most of us walk around as if we’re sleepwalking. We really don’t experience the world fully because we’re half asleep, doing things we automatically think we have to do… Learn how to die, and you learn how to live.’”—Tuesdays with Morrie

hmm, which i think it is quite true by living each day as if is the last day and you can really live it to the fullest, make u cherish every moment with someone who are important to you (friends, family, etc) ..
there is always something i wanna say is although i think that im quite suay got no charbo, but im blessed with a big group of friends. so ppl lets learn how to die from now~

MEN WEREN'T REALLY THE ENEMY

Quote of the day : " They were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill " .
- Betty Friedan
The Feminine Mystique

Jeco aka cabb here . Just to share , I 've been reading this book " The Game" . I'm not gonna say much but as i begin to share my experience in talking to strangers , i found myself looking at the opposite sex with a different perspective . It's kinda funny and weird thing for me and im not sure whether am i feeling wrong or wat .

This book has definitely taught alot on sarging in nightclubs , pick-up lines , opener , how to attract , find and meet , and etc . . . if u want to know ask me . But i can't seem to apply it in Singapore ; FUCK !!!

I'm close to completing the book and i'm starting on a new book called " The Definitive Book of Body Language ."

okok . . . enuff said . . .

I shall share 1 of my experience at St. James PowerHouse .

I'm not sure about the date , so don't fucking ask .

That night , I met up with Leslie's friends and we head down to St.James PowerHouse . Before leaving the house , i make sure i've already prepared myself for the "Game" . I prepared openers , pick-up lines and some jokes ( if the conversation between me n her gets too boring , i might crack 1 or 2 ) and i'm done .

Few moments later , i was at the club . I was constantly looking for a target and probably sarge her . Then there was this girl , probably at about 175cm wearing heels , silky long hair which smells nice i suppose with some light make-up came up to me and ask me whether could she sat down here .

I answered : " ya , sure ."

Soon after sitting down , i couldn't stop myself from looking at her though she wasn't 8/10.
I would rate her 6.5/10 .
(there wasn't any good-looking girls around.!!!)

Then i asked her , what's her name . FUCK!

i fucking spoil my plan by asking her what's her name because what if she doesn't wants to reply me at all .
Then i reach out my hand and try to give a handshake , i insisted on that and i was so so so wrong .
All the openers , pick-up lines and stuff i had prepared had gone down the drain . =(
After a few minutes , i started to chat with her and asked her those standard questions that normally people would ask , such as , which school are you studying at , what course are you taking . It's like a routine , GOD DAMMIT! FUCK !

Her reply was simple and one-word answer , i was getting bored but i couldn't even say out my lines that i've prepared . I was dumbstruck ! FUCK !

After that , i was being pulled down to the dance floor without even saying goodbye or see you at the dancefloor. That was it .

When i reached down , i sat down and i drew up an analysis of how and in what way could i approach the girl. In the first place , the positioning was wrong and i did not do anything about it.

When the analysis was up , i realise that i was in the wrong position like i've just said , and i should shift myself to face her. Btw, she was sitting at my right hand side .

okok . . . this is so much that i've shared after reading the book for like 2-3 chapters.

-Jeco .

Photohunt~

IN ALL YOUR FACES ! ! ! MAN UTD WON 2-1 ! ! ! WOOOOHOOOO~~~ =D

Words and Memories

Its 2.19 in the morning , and you guys must be wondering why is this person wrote an entry .

At around 11.10pm , Ahji and Peiru suggested that its wednesday nite , and it means that its chill out nite or ladies nite at butter factory . Ahji suggested we chiong cab down to butter factory , but he was just spamming words .

So we decided to call upon Kok , Wesley and Cheng to join us at skatepark area to chill out . We bought 2 Vodkas and some mixers attached with some "cigs" and chips.

We chatted till 2am . haha.

Topics chatted ; "sex as always" , po_ _ _ _ _ _ _ !!! girls , chalet, different kinds of experience, Poly life friends of how they did crazy stuffs and such . It was very random topics , but we managed to pass thru' the night just like that .

I mean its kinda cool , seeing people like K_ _ and W_ _ _ _ _ coming down to chill out , talking cock with us (including Peiru too) .

haha. Btw, the police came and screen us for our "ID's" before Kok soon arrived at the "Lepak" area.

Nice chill out , we should do this more often . Talk alot though i was just sitting down and listening to each and every stories , the fun things , going to bbk al_ _ _ , watching girls go "_ _ _ _ _ _". haha .

Its like , we are 23 years old and some of us never get laid before . Experience and experience . But never take things for granted !



I really enjoyed the company that I've right now . rU !

How long can we last as one depends on how we cherish each and every moment together as one.

Who gives a fuck to those fucking people out there !



PS : sorry for the vuglar.



-Cabb



When you have the power to get any girls out there , just be cool and dont be proud of it cuz one day you will get sick and tired of it .

thoughts

Woots . . . Back to blogging stuffs again . . .
Man Oh Man !!! why does fear always come to rip ur heart , ur balls apart , when it comes to appraoaching girls that u fancy ?

There she was sitting , alone in a corner at the Macdonalds At Funan IT Mall . As soon as i stepped into Mac , i tried to get some eye contact. Our eyes met , and the next thing i know that i wanted to get to know her . Recently i read a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss. But i couldn't seem to apply what the book taught . I tried to pluck my courage , my fuking balls up , just to walk up to her saying ; "Hi" . But i did not do so. Fear suddenly caught up with my heart , doubling the speed that my heart could normally beat . I had to get out of my comfort zone , but i retreated like a tortoise into its shell . Soon after , she left . I felt kinda relieved and at the same time lousy bout' myself . I needed some counselling and the guts to bring my fuking balls uP to approach girls .

This kind of feeling ; it feels good for me as i know that i have really gotten over my past . i just need to get out of my comfort zone .

- Jeco jeco aka Cabb

Ps : some pple told me that : just go for it , u will never know when is it ur gonna see her again or vice versa .
I mean this world is cruel . It makes us fight for the things we want in life . It doesn't always appear infront of you .

!!!!

Do u all ever think what u really want in life??? Get a stable job and financially doing well with out woes, work at something u really interested in or look for an ideal partner?

Now ia 3.04am and i just came back from my friend house feeling abit high under the influence of 4 bottles of tiger beers!!! Majority of the things he had told me really knock me to sense, i know some of points ppl may had ever mention to me before.. but todaY, i just really take into consideration like what master khor sAID, " boy! you are still young and now u just have to concentrate in ur studies to assure a stable job. At the end of the day girls will start going after you." This is quite true in logically thinking, everyone knows about it but Master Khor just wanted to highlighted it to me.

BUT! before those girls that are going to go after you, must be already a friend of urs and know u inside out. What im trying to say is to start open up ur heart and be more socialise, time to learn to get more friends(ABAZ)... You wont lose anything, in faCT U are upgrading ur social skill without knowing .. always look at the positive and stop imagine the worst case scenario, if they really rejected you as a "FRIEND", this prove that this person got no sense of social skill.. you got nothing wrong at it. The person is not gonna affect ur life or even attend ur funeral (touch wood) if you made a mistake, they are just another human being on this planet and eventually they will forget who you are after some times.

Utimately, what you reAlly WANT in life? is all depend on YOU!! so is time to do some reflection and undersTand yourself before u are ready to noe others...

NOTE~ please dun question me on this topic... if you guys dun really understand what M I trying to say, just be it, read and forget....

AHJI

HELP ! ! ! All right, chill everyone.. Nothing concerning lifes and deaths here though. LOLs. I just feel our blog is seriously in need of help. It wasnt as active as it shld have been. It's always the same few people who are blogging(cheers to them=)) and sharing their happenings to the rest of the bro here. well, hope you guys out there can do more updates okie? anything under the sun. Eg. Lifes in camp, someone u really dislike in ur workplace, lifes in overseas, ur injuries, how u and her etc.... nonsense post are welcome too~

If you guys ain't sure of the username or password, feel free to ask either ah ji, lester or me in msn ya..?!?

hope to see more of those siew mai in da mouth kind of creative posts. LOLs~

till then....

take care everyone~~~

=D

kok

Apology Letter

Rabbitz87united

Blk 904 #08-143

Jurong West St.91

Singapore 604904

Rabbitz87united.blogspot.com

www.blogspot.com

Dear Rabbitz87united ,

I do not know what to say but , i sincerely apologise for my actions yesterday night at butter factory . I know that each time when i'm drunk , i will tend to do some stupid things like saying shit stuffs that will never happen .

Each time the people around me will have to suffer . They will have to send the MOFO (ME) home , ensures that he will get home safe and sound . I know how the people around me felt at that time , and because of that , I will jeopardise their mission of getting to know more abaz .

Seriously , this time round , I've gone overboard by having a sip too much that cause my buddies around me to suffer . They will have to clean up my shit , and the next day i will tend to leave a message for them , thanking them .

It's been twice since Lim Terence and Wesley Lek send me home , to my doorstep making sure that i reached home safe and sound . I really APOLOGISE for my actions .

Please forgive me . (those people are : Lim Terence , Wesley Lek , Lester Low , Lee Peiru , Chen Guo Hao )

I will ensure and I promise i will not do it the THIRD TIME , and i swear that the THIRD TIME will not EVEN happen . . . I deeply regretted my actions after Lester Low gave ME a run-down . . . I am a MOFO , Jerk , wat eva shit you guys can call me . . .

Please accept my sincere APOLOGY . I am Sorry . . . I owe you guys alot . . .

Sincerely ,

Jeconiah Tan Jia Hao

rU-cabbage

ps : i really want to say that this bunch of brothers i have is really great , i am going to treasure

this friendship forever . Thanks Lester Low for the run-down . I know how bad i've been .

Please let me Make It Up to you guys . . . Allow me . . . Please . . .

FooliSh ThOughts s s !!!

trying to revive the blog by typing on it .! ! ! revive it ! ! !

i just realised that i'm very foolish that i still harbour the thought of getting back with her again .

i must admit it's hard to let go , though alot of advice was given .

i know there are plenty out there , i know , i know , i know !!!

somebody please slap me hard and tight ! ! !

On wednesday night , 10th feb , 1200 hrs ,

i actually msg her telling her that i miss the time spend with her , wtf ! am i doing !

i was SUPER high on that night , i DID NOT GET DRUNK ! ! !

msg ji that night , he thought i was drunk but i am NOT !!!! , asked him for advice and stuffs .

super foolish of me ! ! !

please please please ! ! !

SOMEBODY PLEASE PUNCH ME HARD ! ! !

knock the sense out of mE ! ! !

next morning received a msg from her , saying that dun think too much alrdy la . . .

Guess it's somehow or rather sad or happy for me , i just do not know how to describe the feeling

at the moment . now i know it's time for me really let go of everything . . . sorry if i kinda spoil

the blog by saying my stuffs , i know this blog is kinda meant for rU life ups and downs . . .

Sorry guys for sharing my problems on this blog . . .

Secondly i'm not sure whether should i stay in the force for the sake of my studies or the friendship that i 've formed within the force . . . the people in the force ,

some who are FUCKED-UP , some who are really really really nice .

i need the office hours time ! ! ! 8-5 job , acceptable income , adjustable timing for the night classes . . .

but the bond for the force for the Minimum Term of Enagement requires me to serve for at least 5 years (including NS) which mean s to say that i can only leave at june 2012 . . .

things have not been going smoothly for me but i've been trying my best to work at it . . .

Last but not least , Chinese New Year is here and i Sincerely wish all rU a Happy Chinese New Year ! ! !

and A Girlfriend soon for each and every rU . . . (excluding Mr BoBo aka . Married Man )

Long time no post...

Hi to all tor ah,

Since this blog is up again, i would like to use this opportunity to thank this person YEO HUI PING who has been constantly organizing trips and outings for us. I think everyone should know that organizing a trip for such big group isnt an easy job and especially for ppl like us confirm pek chek and maybe dun even bother about it but Huiping did it! take genting trip as an example, she called every agency to make sure we get the best price (of maybe for her sake) but I am really appreciated it (if got some girls accompany will be even great la, heh heh heh).
She has been a very patience, good listener (listen to my exciting yq stories) and able to confide secrets too..
and now I hope u do take care of urself and ur cutie scott in texas ( hahaha, someone gonna wash boyuan's underwear liao lo)

To boyuan! ( better read and memorize it!)

although we are friend for almost a decade, if u bully her i will be on her side. IF la.. but i dun think u stand a chance... look at the photo and you will know.. HAHAHA!



_Ahji_

A Fresh Year, A Fresh Look & PLZ POST ENTRIES.

hello my fellow rabbits Brothers!
Some of us have just given this blog a fresh new look, lik wat the above title say, a fresh year (Chinese Lunar New Year) therefore its time to revive tis blog. The last entry was I think somewher at 2007 and for the whole yr of 2008, no entries at all. HW CAN LIK TT !!!
we have neglected this blog for too long, thus its time to bring it back! I'm bringin SEXY back, yea!! I hav read thru some entries earlier on and some entries is really F****** hilarious. Entries by tan, ahpek and other fellow brothers. Also, there are some post which are quite heart warming when reading it. Such as, Cheng wishing Koksiong happy bday, bobo wishing cabb happy bday and also some of us saying our thank you speeches after our bday.

I am also proud to say tt, we have been friends for a decade and its still counting (talking in General here). hope our brotherhood and friendship will stay as strong as ever. Furthermore, I hope tt our family of brothers will increase the number of members just like what bobo did, he brought in a wonderful woman into this heart warming family and into his life. BOBO, you are now officially a One Woman's Man! (dont go flirting ard in USA) lol.


- Spidey.

=)

They must have heard it alot alot of times, but once again CONGRATULATIONS to the newly wed. Today was a fun-filled day with alot of happy, funny, touching, and of course the not-so-happy moments. To be honest, it's my first time attending a solumisation ceremony(yes! sua gu i know) and it was definitely an eye opener for me. The bride looks gorgeous and the bride certainly looks great. The food was nice and i really enjoyed it. The zouk thingy was ok even though some might look sianz. To me, it's "who you are with" rather than "what you are doing" that matter most. So, thumbs up for zouk as well. Pictures says a thousand words so, guess we will have to wait for cabb's & wee leong's photographs(credits to them).

To some, sorry always seems to be the hardest word. However, i think i should apologised to the rabbit bros who traveled with me earlier. sorry guys, i loses my cool where i think i shldnt have. Thinking back, it sounds so ridiculous for someone who is always late to lose his cool when the others were late. I just lose control for a moment. Bro sui( <--LOL) trust me, i really wasnt mad at you at that moment. Rather, i am just fed up with the terrible weather. Anyway, you have my words, guys, i will change the bad habit(of been late). Please don't expect immediate result okie. i'll improve. That's my promise to you guys.

A sudden urge makes me write this immediately upon reaching home. Perhaps it's time to wash up and join the Z Z monster.

To end off,

rest well guys~

~kok~

Just Thought / s ( Nothing Much )

wassup ! again ! i've wanting to revive this blog , so please pardon me guys .
I hope that even as we grow old , we can still continue to keep in touch with each other lives thru' blogging or probably msn ...

haha...

Brothers from secondary school
Students till ITE college
Buddies till Army

Different views , Different opinions from each other , Different response from each other ...

How are we suppose to know if u guys don't meet up and clear the misunderstanding ???

Com'on !!!

just a girl not even tw_nty , i mean i may be in no position to say , but as a friend .

been there , done that ... Realise it was mine folly ...

Does friendship still exist over a girl whom barely have been known for like a year plus ?

Friendship > girl known for a year plus ?

Friendship < girl known for a year plus ?

Everyone has a choice to make !

The power of Choice , Definitely .

I've made mine Choice , What's Next ???

Religion / Relationship

I'm up again . Late monday nights ; thinking of things and preparing for my Maths exams .

Thinking of religion , Is that really important in a relationship ?

Does it really affect much in the after-marriage life ?

I really wonder .

I think it really depends on own opinion .

Christians with Christians ; Buddists with Buddists ...

haha . . .

I also would like to share something motivational . " THE POWER OF CHOICE "

Everyone has a choice ; to choose ; to decide what's best for him or herself .

What happens when best friends fall out with each other ? I'm trying to help my collegue and i can't help him much . At least i tried to kinda provide solutions or what-so-eva . . . fack !

Anyway , just a post to keep the blog running ...

PS : CAN CHANGE PROFILE PICTURE LIAO LE !!! YAYS !!!

SIGNING OFF !!!